>[!quote] >Frustration is bargaining with reality, hoping it will change. > >Yelling at traffic doesn't make it move faster. Rehearsing the same complaints about your spouse doesn't change their behavior. Getting angry at the delayed flight doesn't make it take off sooner. > >While you're busy fighting what is, you're blind to what could be. > >All the energy you put into arguing with reality comes at the expense of improving your situation. The mountain doesn't care how much you yell at it, but you'll find a path around it if you stop and look. > >-- Shane Parrish